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writes:My boyfriend sent me a text message this morning saying that he loves me, and a couple of hours later, he called me, but i missed the call. He didnt leave a voicemail message. I couldn't get back to him until a few hours later. I tried to call him but there was no answer, and i also sent him a text message, asking if he wants to meet tomorrow, but he hasn't responded to that either. I'm really worried. We said yesterday that we might meet tomorrow too, but we hadnt made any definate plans. Should i send him a message on facebook, incase something has happened to his phone, or should i just leave it for now ?. He was having the internet installed in his house today, so i know he will have been quite busy, but it doesn't take long to send a text message or make a phone call. I told him where and when i could meet him tomorrow, if he does want to meet, so he might get back to me in the morning. What should i do if he doesn't though?. He's usually reliable with meeting, and responding to phone calls and text messages. There have only been a couple of occassions where he hasn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2012): He's just sent me a text message saying " I can't be apart from you too much ". What does that mean, and should i text or ring him back now, or should i make him wait a bit ?. I don't know what to say to him!.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2012): He still hasnt contacted me. Should i go round to his house tomorrow and see if i can speak to him face to face, or should i still wait and see if he contacts me?. He has even given me a key to his place!. He hasnt asked to have the key back, so if he wanted to finish with me, wouldn't he have asked to have it back?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2012): It wasnt the first time he said he loves me.We have told each other that we love each other a few times.Its hard for me not to contact him but i guess that is what i'll have to do.I'll try to keep myself busy in the meantime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2012): I had a missed call again today from him.I tried to call him ten minutes later but he didnt answer.I heard him on my voicemail.It sounded like he was moving things. Lol its hard to describe the sounds i heard. I dont know if he called me by accident , but i'm not going to contact him any more now unless he contacts me first.Or i might not contact him at all.We have been together for 2 months.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (29 February 2012):
 You are over thinking it way too much. You know he's having a busy day...so...he's busy. Stop second guessing and get on with your day. He already said he loved you today, so be happy that he has given you a thought. When he isn't busy, he will call. If you get in his face and worry and fret and overthink something so insignificant he will think you have gone nuts and it will push him away.
Don't contact him on FB cos thats really overkill...chill out, get on with your day and when he calls, just make your date arrangements as per normal.
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reader, Ms. Intuition  +, writes (29 February 2012):
I agree wit Ciar. Unless there's another side to the story dont worry too much about it.
Was this the first time he had ever said he loves you? If it is, its possible he got spooked by your silence. But even if this is the case, he will come around. All the best to you.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (29 February 2012):
 Unless there is more going on than you've told us about I think you are fretting for nothing. You've sent him a text. You could send him a facebook message, but that's it. If he doesn't get back to you about this outting, there will be others. People are sometimes busy, and I doubt your boyfriend was stressing himself out when he couldn't reach you.
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reader, Eyespy17  +, writes (29 February 2012):
How long have you been dating that you are over analyzing this? It sounds like you just started dating?
You made your contact. Now wait. He knows how to get in touch with you.
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