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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello people Now I have a really really big problemI love my fiancé to death I never ever want to lose her but the problem is always that she constantly believes I'm cheating on her. The problem here is that she says her proof is her friends always just say I'm a bad guy when they don't even know me and her for sure proof is what my brothers say over the phone. She thinks they are helpin me cheat on herMy brother keeps saying I have a Facebook and I know he's just kidding and is just saying that and my fiancé flips an automatically thinks I'm cheating. My brother was asking me why I ate all of his chili and my fiancé was just outside and she swore she heard my brother say I was cheating. More recently we were on the phone just talkin normal then my brother came told me to leave the room cause he had something important to do and my other brother came in aswell and asked if I wanted a chicken sandwich and I was ok sure an he said ok well come on. My fiancé hears my brother saying "oh did you cum in her" and for some reason I wasn't able to hear her and she couldn't here me I was saying hello all loud on the mic of my iPod because she uses that to call me through Internet and I could here her telling me she could not here me as if I was far away from the iPod when the headphones were in my ear and the mic next to my mouth and my mom and brother saw and heard me yellingShe said I sounded far away and was calling me a billion times but I never answered and as soon as she heard what she heard she said she heard messing with the mic so I can hide somethingIt's been like this for a while and I'm getting worn out I love her I truly do and I would never hurt her but she constantly thinks I'm cheating on her by "hearing" it I know what has been said yet I'm bewildered oh something on one side of the universe and mean something completely far off from the subject said. Please I need help how do I convince her I'm faithful?P. S. she thinks I wait til she falls asleep to cheat on her granted we stay on the phone til very early morning and the only thing I do after she sleeps is sleep myself.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Ok you want to be in a relationship with this girl why? Her behavior by the way is exceedingly immature. Why create fake drama with unfounded accusations? Stop trying to convince her that you are faithful - DUMP HER NOW. Get a girl who cares about you. This one clearly does not.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (1 March 2012):
Ok you want to be in a relationship with this girl why? Her behavior by the way is exceedingly immature. Why create fake drama with unfounded accusations? Stop trying to convince her that you are faithful - DUMP HER NOW. Get a girl who cares about you. This one clearly does not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2012): "how do I convince her I'm faithful?"
You can't. She doesn't trust you because she'd rather believe her friends over you.
You can't win. You've done nothing wrong, and she doesn't want to believe you've done nothing wrong as long as she listens to her friends, whom she will continue to always believe over you.
Why you're even thinking of marrying this shrew is beyond my admittedly limited comprehension, she's never going to change and marrying her will pretty much guarantee she will make your life a living hell on an ongoing daily basis.
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reader, landomando +, writes (29 February 2012):
your getting married to a girl that doesnt trust you at all. Your Finance would rather listen to other people then to listen to you. First you should talk to her and just lay it all on the line. because if she doesnt trust you whats the point to get married, it wont work. soo you have to have a talkYou have to tell her I love you.. Tell her how you feel about her. Then go all in and say you obviously dont trust me at all.(give examples) How is this going to work if you dont trust me? I want to marry you. i want to spend my life with you and grow old with you.. If you cant trust me now, if you cant believe me, and rather believe the BS from your friends or whoever is making this up, then i want this to end now. and you can go marry them because you obviously trust them more then your future husband. I cant handle being accused of this. I cant deal with the girl i love not being able to trust me. And i will not spend my life with someone who cant. trust me or dont.... If she says she cant.. you cant marry this girl. it wont work. But shes in love with you, shes marrying you!! I think that alone. laying everything down will help you out.Good luck hope you can figure this out.No trust=no relationship
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