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Is it weird to get turned-on by things you're actually disgusted by?

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Question - (24 February 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2012)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a question, and I could really use some thoughts on it.

Is it normal to be turned on by things you don't like? Like you get physically aroused, but mentally you don't like it.

Heres an example, say you don't like porn, you think it's disgusting, but you've got turned on while watching it. You know it's not your thing, but it still happened.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2012):

therain it makes no difference when you're down there with your tongue out hehe.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (25 February 2012):

person12345 agony auntI have problems with most aspects, from the production/corporations to the problems it can cause in a relationship when one person secretly watches.

It's not even that I don't find it mentally appealing or something, I certainly "like" it as more than a physical reaction. But that doesn't change how I feel about it logically and rationally. If that makes sense.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2012):

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Thanks for the answers.

Person12345, Do you just disagree with the ethics. Like do you actually find it sexy in any way? or is it just a physical reaction, but mentally you have no interest?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2012):

person12345 is right. Think of it this way OP most of us guys are very turned on by where you piss and have a monthly stinky, bleed from, where you poop from is really close too but most of us guys find that area very sexy hehe.

So yeah you can be turned on by things you think are disgusting and no it's not weird.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (24 February 2012):

person12345 agony auntSure. I'm as anti-porn as they come but if I watch non-violent porn it still arouses me. That doesn't mean I'm OK with it at all. Kind of like I doubt most vegetarians dislike the way meat tastes, but that doesn't change their problems with the conditions it's "created" in.

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