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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend sent me a message saying " I don't know if you still love me like i love you, but i hope that you do ". Why would he say that, especially when i told him i loved him in the message i sent to him before that?. It's worrying me. I don't even know how to respond, as he should know that i do. Sometimes he has said that he is worried that i will leave him for someone else too. We do have a big age gap though.
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (24 February 2012):
 HI
He sounds very much inlove with you, and as you stated worried that you may leave him for someone else. Im guessing your the younger one here? His bound to feel a little insecure, what with all the younger and more fitter men walking around. Just reasure him untill he gets it through his head. I know this can be a bit tedious at times especially if you are telling him, and showing him all the time, but he may have been really crushed in the past. Has he been with a younger woman before who has left him for a younger man?. Maybe he finds it hard to believe that a younger woman like yourself is inlove with him, his waiting for the bubble to burst, expecting you to wake up any minute and realise you want a younger man? Why dont you arrange a nice meal, a bottle of wine, low lights, nice music, and show him just how much he means to you. Then say " does this show you how much I love you " because if you keep thinking im going to leave I will end up leaving because there is only so much I can do and say to make you understand my love for you. You will know what to say im sure :) Bless him tough, he really does love you :)
Mandy x
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (24 February 2012):
 Tell us about that age gap..... It is germaine to your issue....
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