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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:What did he mean by that? why did he call me? ? ?I loved my ex bf so much. We weren't just boyfriend and girlfriend we were friends aswell. We'd talk about everything and anything and could talk for hours on the phone and not run out of things to say.I believed he loved me cos he was so sweet, romantic and very caring. I was loyal and loved him with all my heart. Then he dumped me out of the blue saying he didn't want a relationship anymore. He said he loved me but can't love me again, he says I have split personality.We haven't spoken for a few months then the other day he rang me he said he rang just to say hello. I got a lot of calls that day so when he rang I said why's everyone calling me today and he said cos I'm a nice person. I told him it was nice hearing from him and got off the phone like 30seconds.My heart was beating so fast. Why was it beating so fast? and why did he say I'm a nice girl
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (24 February 2012):
 HI
he probably wants the friendship back,but not the gf side just friends, and regrets what happened between you. so is letting you know you ARE a nice person and his not the only one that thinks so. Maybe he felt you were such great friends, and being in a relationship wasn't the same as before. he could talk to you before about everything and anything without judgement, when you start a relationship somewhere down the line we can end up a little more judgemental and critical without realising. His reaching out to you in hope of your friendship returning, can ou do that? I think you should give him atleast one chance. but that just me.
Mandy x
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