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writes:I have always had high sex drive and that kind of makes me feel weird about myself. My bf has a seemingly low one cause he doesnt not ask me for anything physical. Normally I would be the one taking the initiative to cuddle with him. Recently, I start to feel a bit low on my sex drive. and last week when i went to his house, dressing imo a bit sexily, he did not really react. he spent an hour watching movies with me. and when i got sick of it i went to his bed to rest, thinking he would come. but he came to me after 20 min or so. and did not touch me. after which express to him how i felt and he told me its weird of him to touch me suddenly without any ambience. he said that its not like we were making out or what. we were intimate after that and he did touch me. am i not attractive enough for him? or it is just that he respects me alot? i see that he is a real gentleman.. I like that. but its kind of sad that my bf does not really touch me.thanks for reading.
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reader, Masterofpuppets  +, writes (24 February 2012):
 Well it sounds like he has A great deal of respect for you and think that, this is A really rare occurance these days. Maybe he has issues initiating physical contact and you should try to be more aggressive. My relationship is kind of that way only it's reversed , I have to be the one that ignites the sexual flame about 99 percent of the time and wish that my girl would put on sexy clothes or grab me while we're watching tv and kiss me (bj) .. I understand believe me. I have learned that she is just that way and I have to be the one to start it so to speak. Hopefully this will work for you.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (24 February 2012):
 I think he is respecting you as a woman, and unlike alot of men feels that making love is something spontaneous between two people, not just because everyone else has a exected amount of how many times you should be getting it a week. Although if there is NO intimacy maybe he was brought up that touching, and showing to much effection is a weakness, and wrong? Try not to put to much pressure on him, wait to see if he will instigate next time, if not then tell him how much this is effecting you emotionaly, and that it's effecting your confidence.
Mandy x
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