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writes:Hi friends....I am going through a problem these days. so wanted to share that with you...I am presently in a relationship with a guy. In the early phases of our relationship, everything was normal. He used to love me a lot and cared for me. but after 6 months of our relationship, his behaviour seems to have changed. He remains busier in his work and has no time for me. He is, in a way, ignoring me. Nowadays, I have come in touch to my ex. We have developed a good friendship now. But he still proposes me and cares for me a lot. And me, I don't know why, is getting attracted towards him. Knowing that am in a relation with someone else, I am not able to avoid his romantic and possessive talks. I am realising that slowly am creating distance with my present bf. But I can't stop myself to be close to my ex. I remain very happy with him, and not with my present guy.I don't know what's happening with me. I don't understand what to do. I don't want to hurt any of the two guys. What should I do in such a situation.......
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (25 February 2012):
 Hello, Now you mentioned that your boyfriend was ignoring you....but you also said that he is working alot. My view on someone ignoring is not having a valid reason to do so...if he's working....he's working.Secondly, things just don't happen between you and your ex. Feeling neglected by your present boyfriend you allowed yourself to be open to your ex to get attention. You allowed yourself to rekindle feelings for him and now you are in a tough spot.If you feel that comfortable with your ex..then go for it. But be honest...please..be honest and let your current boyfriend know that you would like to be with another. Do not lead him on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2012): Hi with this I think you should go and see your old ex and see what they are like now so that you can get a better understanding of what to do also if you think about he might be ignoring you for a reason like cheating or something that he does not have the courage to tell you
Hope this helps xx
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