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writes:Before i get into this i would really like a males perspective, but anyone thats willing to answer is fine. ( and sorry if this is really graphic) Me and my bf have been in a relationship for two months i like him so much. i want to start having sex with him also i dont want it to be boring sex. i wanna try new things and ive always been sorta 'kinky' i want my bf to do something i dont think he'll like.. i want him to pee on my p**** or stomach and i also would wanna do the same to him. Ive been thinking about it for a few weeks now, but i just dont know how to come out and say it. I dont want him to think im a freak or anything, i just really wanna try it. Is their something wrong with me? even in the morning when my bf stays the night ill wake up getting ready for work and he'll just come and the bathroom to pee ( were very open haha) and i get turned on by him peeing? i have no idea why. please help, should i tell him about it or would this scare him away? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2012): i am older, 54, but remember when my wife once said to me that she fantasized about me peeing on her. This was when we were in our twenties. I never acted upon her statement but now wished i had. Be open to all sexual ideas as long as no one is forced or hurt.
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reader, LoveForeverxoxo +, writes (8 December 2012):
Thank you all for your responces. If you would like to know what happened id be happy to share. We did in fact have sex lastnight, he made it very comfortable for me to be open to anything and him also. I didnt come out and said what i wanted from him but this is how it happened.
we had sex. we were both ready to go again after but he said he has to go to the bathroom really quick, i told him i dont want him to get up and leave, he jokenly said " haha what you want me to do it on you, just let me go ill be really quick" i said " yes i want you to" and his eyes lit up, and he said really? i said yes would that freak you out? nd he said i can try it, ive never done it before"
so he tried it and he said he doesnt really like doing that to me, but if it turns me on he will. and i did it to him and he got turned on instintly . Thank you for all your supportive answer
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012): Nothing wrong with you OP and I wouldn't just come out and say it either. It may be a bit too much of a surprize. I had an ex that liked pee play and she slowly introduced it as a bit of fun.
the first time we were in the shower and just asked me to have a quick pee "just try it I think it might be hot" so I did and she liked it. next time in the shower she asked me to pee on her leg again she liked it so we eventually ended up with me peeing on her the shower and she loved it. I didn't really like the idea of being peed on so being in the shower was great as she could thoroughly wash it off and rinse before continued on being sexual.
Two months is not long though, you may want to wait a bit and try other kinky stuff. Most of us guys love getting freaky in some kind of way, just try lots of different things and introduce the peeing thing later in the shower.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012): Its called a pee fetish and its actually more common than a lot of people think. The thing is, people with a fetish like this feel the same, that its too weird and other people will think its disgusting, and it will put people off, so its not something they shout about from the rooftops, hence you don't hear of it that often. Unless you go digging on the internet for it, where there's tons of the population from all walks of life owning up to having a pee fetish lol.
(Btw I too share the same fetish as you so I understand where you're coming from)
Each and every time I like a girl who likes me and where things could become serious, I run the risk of scaring her off by telling her and expressing my concerns about her reaction to it, but I feel its absolutely necessary to be upfront and honest about it, sooner at a stage where if she does get put off me, things weren't that serious, so I've not really lost much.
Believe it or not though, the responses I get are generally not bad at all, its usually either a case of
"yeah I can do that for you, it doesn't bother me and I'm not afraid to try new things"
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"its not a put off, but I've never been asked before and I've never considered it, so I'm unsure if I can do it or not, but if I love you and its something that pleases you, I will think about it"
You can find that even some people who do not share your fetish, are still willing to act it out for you, and despite having some girlfriends who have and others who haven't, my fetish has not once put a girl off me.
I know things are past that stage now with you and your boyfriend as you're relationship is official, and if it puts him off, you have a bit more to lose (albeit only 2 months but still), so I would suggest either you try and approach the subject by making a joke out of this with him eg :
"You're always in the bathroom having a pee when I'm in the bathroom, are you sure you don't just like peeing in front of me because it turns you on?" Etc...
Or you could just lay your cards on the table in front of him and tell him of your concerns for a sexual desire you have, and if he insists that you tell him what it is, then tell him. It will likely not put him off you, but as I mentioned earlier not everyone will be comfortable doing this for you. All you can do is give it a shot, you never know unless you share this with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012): I don't think there is anything wrong with you. People at your age are very curious and willing to explore the opposite sex, which is totally natural. Boys and girls pee differently, so almost every boy and girl may have sexual fantasies about peeing.
But most couples just pee in front of one another, not ON one another. I'm not saying that it's wrong, I'm just saying that it's not so common.
And there is a technical problem as well. Your boyfriend is not able to pee while he is aroused. His body won't allow it. So you have to wait until he's not aroused. But what's the point of doing it if he's not aroused?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012): Personally that would b something u should wait to tell him it would be very startaling early into a relationship to put him in that situation. Ease into try otherthings a little less freaky first then build into the more freaky stuff as your relationship strengthens over time your boyfriend will become more open minded and willing to do that kind of stuff. Sorry for the lack of grammer im on a cell.
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