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anonymous
writes:Hi, i cant stop thinking about a women at my work we used to work together, and hang out at tea breaks etc.She has a boyfriend. When I told her I liked her she said she's happy, but one week later asked me out for a drink as friends went out few times after 2A while later it seemed as if she started to put effort into relationship and cut me out which was hard as I really liked herOver three years I have liked her. I still get the signs she likes me, but she tries not to show it. I get the impression she is not happy but is scared to leave her relationshipI don't speak to her that much but she always trys to get my attention at work but doesn't seam that chatty when i do talk to her, which is strange when you used toWhat do you guys think is the best thing I can do, I really like her still, and am sure she likes me just don't want to mess things upMany thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012): thanks for the answers ill try to stop thinking its so hard
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reader, oldbag +, writes (6 December 2012):
 Hi
She has a boyfriend. Simple. She is not available.She is merely a work colleague.
Get out and about, try to meet women who ARE free to have a relationship, for your own sake.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (6 December 2012):
 You're making this far more complicated than it really is. She's not available to you. She's with someone else and doesn't want to be with you badly enough to walk away from that someone else. The only thing left for you to do is walk away from her and stay away.You should not have told her you liked her. You put her in a very uncomfortable position. You wouldn't like it if some guy said such a thing to your girlfriend, would you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012): its very hard as i see her nearly everyday at work ive never felt like this bout any body before, be nice if things work out
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 December 2012):
 It sounds to me like she enjoyed the attention that you gave her. She knew you liked her so she played on that, then probably realised that it was not worth it or not fair on you. She has a boyfriend you need to accept that if she wanted to be with you then she would haven chosen to be with you but she never so you need to accept that and move forward from this girl. Start dating other girls and you will soon find it easier to move forward and get over her. Good luck.
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