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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I had been dating this guy for almost three months and I was thinking about what to get him for our anniversary. Well a few days before our anniversary he told me on the computer that he wanted to take a break and start the new year of college single and if he couldn't find anyone then we could get back together. Well I broke up with him completely cause I didn't want to deal with that, but I still really liked him. Then at the beginning of the new year he asked me out again saying that nobody at his college liked him and he had only a few friends and he said he still cared about me and had feelings for me. So I went back out with him and few months later same thing happened he wanted to take a break because he wanted to ask out this other girl that he thught was "really pretty," so I broke up with him completely again. This whole time we have been broken up we have stayed friends. Well he just messaged me saying, "I've got a confession to make... I still love you and have a crush on you... I never wanted our relationship to end because I know that you're the right girl for me... You love me for who I am, and not my looks. What I'm trying to say is, I want to be in a relationship with you. What do you say? Give me another chance?" I don't know what to do cause I still have feelings for him! Please help me and tell me what you think I should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): Thank you both for answering my question! :) it had been two times and now it's three times! and I didn't see you guys answers before I gave him an answer and I said yes! Well we were doing good but it seemed different and sure enough he brooke up with me last night! This time we only dated for 20 days! I am never going there again! And poppy thx yea i really shouldn't have gone back! and lexard thanks alot! It's nice to have a guy comment on it and help out too! :) And thx for the smile part!
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reader, lexard +, writes (1 January 2011):
how many times has it been? If he breaks up with you for another girl for more than 3 times then you should open your eyes now. You don't live only to be a substitute. You need to love yourself more. Why not try to find time for yourself? think over if you really want to be hurt for the same reason. the choice is always yours.
just remember to smile. Always smile :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011): nooooo! This guy is playin u hunny do yourself a favour and have a new year clean out get rid of the rubbish! He will only drop u again if somethin else comes along!
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