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writes:Other people are spreading rumors and accusing my fiance of cheating,They have also told him negative things about me. He said that he isn't cheating and it is causing a great deal of stress within the relationship. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): People do this kind of crap.
People have suggested to my wife on several occasions that I might be having an affair, when work would get hectic and I'd be gone more (I don't always control my job and I've had jobs where is was either work more and odd hours or get fired). I don't even flirt...really.
Why?
Because they don't really give a shit about who they are hurting and aren't truly trying to be helpful.
Turmoil in other people's relationships makes them like to see turmoil in other relationships even when it doesn't exist and to encourage others to think that they "can't have it that good".
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (1 January 2011):
many people are victimised by rumors
and the world is full of crazy people who'd love to hurt others
to be sure you must have some rational indicators and edvidence about his faithfullness
rethink his behaviour and hopefully you well find out
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011): Hi!
It is important within a relationship to keep things private between you two. Any conflict or any matter thereof should only be discussed between the two of you, this way things are contained within the relationship and you dont have to worry about gossip and all that other drama. People who talk behind peoples backs and spread rumors are childish and deserve to have my 120 dumbbells dropped on their feet to wake them up. Good luck on this miss :)
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reader, Secretlife  +, writes (1 January 2011):
Dont believe the rumors. Ask your fiance about them.If he says they aren't true then dont ay them any attention. And also pay attention to his actions. If he acts a way one day then starts changing his ways then thats when you start to get suspecious.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (1 January 2011):
 Well what causes them to spread these rumors? If you know that these rumors are not true then pay them no heed. If these rumors are being spread by friends or family tell them that if they continue to speak about things that they know are untrue, you will have to remove yourself from them because what they are doing is evil.
How does your fiance feel about the things they are saying about you? Does he believe them? Do you suspect that the rumors of infidelity on his part might be true? If not then ignore the rumors and be happy, find new friends.
I hope that helps.
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