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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey so i need some help here as i don't know what to do, I'm 16 and he is 21 next week we met on a work night out and instantly clicked, we were chatting and flirting and ending up snogging each other its legal I'm from uk, after a week of phone calls and texting i fell hard for him like i really liked him which is rare for me i don't normally fall for anyone but i was attracted to him physically and mentally he said he liked me too and was always telling me how amazing i am and can't believe i didn't know it and text lyrics off burno mars song but he wasn't ready for a relationship, now he's come out and said with the age everything is too complicated and it wouldn't be fair on either of us and i actually did cry for ages and can't get over him, i don't know what to do he wants to stay friends but i don't even think i can I'm so upset about it all :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011): This happened to me a few years ago. I fell for this guy and I felt we were totally right for each other. We spent a weekend together (no sex) and the following day he told me it wasn't going to work and it would be unfair to get into a relationship and use me knowing his heart wasn't in it. I had to respect his feelings and today we are still good mates and have both met other people.
Respect his decision and move on.
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reader, lexard  +, writes (1 January 2011):
 If I would think about his situation, It would really be hard. Maybe he finds it hard to adjust to your style of living cause your a teen while he is a full grown adult. Maybe time would heal everything. Give him time to think. And give yourself a break from crying.
Just remember to smile :)
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