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writes: So me and this boy had a thing for about three months.We kept it a secret because we both had reputations, his being literally to good for anyone. And mine was slightly non - existant.Except now it has all come out, and my reputation is a whore.He is getting credit for what i did to him, and im getting slagged off.All my friends are there for me, but i know they are disappointed in me.One of my friends i found out afterwards, was in love with him, so i lost her friendship.And something that was just fun, and was growing into a really strong feeling, for me anyway, has just completley backfired.Loads of my friends thrive at thought of being a slut, and having had 'sex' at fourteen (which i wouldnt do) but i hate it.I no now ive been used, and can't help but not caring and still wanting to be with him?Why is this happening to me?Where did i go wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, welsh_drag87  +, writes (22 March 2007):
 im in sort of a similar situation...i was used by this guy who i still like (dont ask me why)!!! we txt eachother and talk on the phone nearly every day but i found out he has a girlfriend ad hes a big time player! my mates have gone past caring because they know how stupid i am for still liking him after eveything hes put me thru, but they still listen to me talk about him bless them! lol i really just want to be his friend but its hard because i cant get over him as i see him nearly everyday...ive trid deleting his number but then he just rings me and i feel guilty if i dont answer it! and the thought of cutting off contact with him is something i dont want to do because i still want to be friends. i kno how you feel and its really hard. i need some advise myself! lol
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