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writes:What makes a person exciting/interesting, one that someone wants to have around and stay around? I get the impression that I don't maintain people's interest. I don't consider myself a boring person at all. I enjoy most activities, I'm always up for a laugh and a good time. I have found that the main people who say certain things I do are boring have what i would consider low self esteem and don't stretch themselves to experience new things. So why would they label me boring? How do you become a more dynamic, interesting person?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007): do your previous partners think you are boring?
do you feel like you put on an act to be interesting?
only you can be honest to yourself and answer your question of perception of others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007): i have the same problem. i have no problem with my friends, but meeting new people is different. the main problem is when i am at work. i was told today that i have to be more dynamic in the way i talk to people. i dont totally understand. she says i have to talk more to people and be more professional-not to be afraid of asking questions and showing that you are in charge and in control of everything-try to be as helpful as possible.
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reader, Dos_Vinci  +, writes (22 March 2007):
 The key isn't to change yourself. It's to find a group of people who accept you for who you already are.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (22 March 2007):
 So a bunch of insecure people who are unwilling to try new stuff view YOU as boring. Well I think it sounds like THEY are boring. Why do you even care about what they think of you?
Be happy in life, fill it with activities you enjoy, try out whatever new stuff you feel like. You'll meet more interesting people that way. I like people who seem happy with the way they live, people who have an appetite for life. That's makes them cool and interesting to me.
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