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anonymous
writes:i love my boyfriend very much and he says he loves me too but we had an argument and broke up on saturday. he didnt seem bothered at all and i was crying my eyes out. we have since made up but he told me that he didnt cry at all when we split and he even went to another girls houseparty the same night. he said his friends were telling everyone he was single and on the rebound. if he loved me as much as he makes out then shouldnt he of been really upset over what happened? and how do i know he didnt go with someone ele at the party because as far as he was concerned he was single please help me
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (21 March 2007):
 When your boyfriend decided to let you in on how much fun he had whilst he was temporarily single, he was making sure you know that he wasnt dependent on you. He was making a point that you need him more than he needs you, although believe you me, he's not exactly feeling that way! Its a reverse psychology thing where he wants to show you he wasnt hurt at all with the breakup, so if it happens again, you'll know that it will not hurt him, but rather yourself. I suggest taking what he says with just a pinch of salt, I mean if he really was out having fun, then good for him, at least we know he wont be a clingy so and so. I dont think you should beat yourself over the fact that he might have had someone on the rebound that night, as I personally dont think he had!! However, in the event that he really did, theres still nothing you can do about it as he was technically single at that time. What you shouldve done when he told you that was to also tell him that you were with your mates, having a short trip someone nearby or something like that! See if that drives him up the wall!!
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