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female
age
36-40,
*ucyizsexy
writes:when a guy wants to breakup with you why can't they just tell you straight instead of ignoring your texts and calls?
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reader, Yos  +, writes (22 March 2007):
 The answer is, unfortunately, cowardice
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (22 March 2007):
 Hi,
Interesting!!! only one guy had the guts to answer. Do girls do this as well, I think some must but you never hear it much do you?
I know men are supposed to be the stronger sex, but we all know by now, that this is total cr**. Most men I know would not have the guts to be straight with a girl, why?.
Is it really that hard to be honest. Even if it hurts like hell, Its a lot easier in the end, than finding out from a stranger, or a mate, the real truth.
Men... some of you have an awfull lot to answer for. My mates wonder why we need them, except for the obvious of course. The good side of that though, you dont have to put a vibrators smelly underwear in the washing, or watch it pick its nose while you watch telly.
Surely they cant all be bad... there must be one dirty- habbit free, honest and trustworthy fun guy out there, who will love me unconditionally and never let us girls down.
I think I just thought who he is..... I am off to lunch with my DAD.
Hope this brought a smile....you will find a good one dont worry. Honest there not all bad XXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): ugh, i know .. it is really painful hun. mine did it by text! they're just little "boys" who aren't man enough to break up with you face to face. you don't need him. it takes time to get over something like this especially if they just abandonded you without any closure. keep reminding yourself that you deserve better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): My ex did exactly the same thing to me after four years. He started ignoring my calls/texts,I found out he was seeing someone else. I think maybe it could be that they feel really guilty and can't deal with the emotional fallout. So they run and hide..who wants a man like that anyway?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Because they don't have the nerve just to tell you straight and instead blank you so that you get the message that they aren't interested in you anymore.
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reader, always have a problem +, writes (21 March 2007):
 i know what you mean it has happend to me before and its not nice at all, all i can suggest is that you can do better and you dont realy need someone like him in your life.
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reader, Meeh_06 +, writes (21 March 2007):
 Because they are normally too scared of the reaction, or they want to look "cool" in front of their mates, and that they don't care.
It's happened to all of us, and you will gradually get over the pain and anger you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): He can't tell you straight because he hasn't got the backbone or guts to do it. You are well rid of him and will meet someone that you do deserve. Also at this age you don't really want to be getting tied down to one bloke, enjoy life and get out their with your mates.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): One of the biggest frustrations about dating, isn't it? It's happened to all of us. Some men don't know how to talk and just tell you. They want to avoid confrontation. Like Jamitri stated, guys like this are not being considerate, caring and respectful. And it does say a lot about their maturity level and their character. And cowardly people would rather wait until the end of time, before giving another person, the big send off. That's just the way it is, hun. We are all better off without people like this in our life, anyways. Look at it as a blessing and just keep being happy you don't have a guy like this, in your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Im sorry to hear that is what you're going through. He is obviously not as considerate to your feelings as he should be. Ive been through this and am currently experiencing a lot of pain as a result of my ex's insensitivity. His behaviour now should confirm to you that he isnt really the sort of guy you should be with anyway.
Hope this helps,
J
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