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writes: someone explain and help me with this. i have a very close female friend. she tells me everythin. recently she told me she dumped her 1year boyfriend. so the next day i went to her house to see if she's ok. and i saw him there with her. so that was suprising considering how upset she was when she told me she broke up!anyway at school i expected her to come to me and tell me etc what's happened coz i still dont know what happened and why he was with her. i didn't bother asking her either at school and suprisingly she's ignoring me now! wha 's that all about?well i cant be bothered to go ask her coz she's always with her mates and i think why should i make the effort she needs to come talk to me because i made an effort to go to her house and embarrass myself in front of her boyfriend.i've been talkin alot to her best friend who i really like. i think my best mate is gettin jealous.it just feels awkward now coz we suddenly stopped talkin.someone explain this to me! what should i do?
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reader, G-763  +, writes (21 March 2007):
 Hello mate
Funny enough I'm kind of in a simular probelm to you. Bascially it sounds to me that you are a decent guy who just cares for your friend, right?
Well it seems to me, that some idiot whever it be your best friend or one of her friends (or her alleged ex), one of them has said something nasty about you, basically they are probably jealous of your friendship.
All I can recommend to you is, if you are just friends then leave her alone and still be yourself, if she talks to you be normal.
She obvouisly believes what these idiots (or an idot) said to her. I presume they shall have said something like 'oh he only hangs around with you because he fancys you' etc.
If she still ignores you, just think is she really worth it, if she was a decent friend then she would at least speak to you.
However, if you are in love with her then it is a different story, I know you haven't said that, but seriously if you are post back (I'm not suggesting that because she's female, I just mean it in a nice way).
One of my good friends is female and I'm in love with her and she is with me but her friends and other people in my year are mocking her because they feel we are (as we have kept it secret),it's so hard for me and her as she too is ignoring me because of this. If your in love with her, or you feel that their could be something between you, please reply back or message me as I can offer you much better advice, which I have partly recieved from other great members of this website.
Regards!
G-763
P.S Good luck!
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