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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:this guy im into asked me out( in fact i love him). this would the first time we've properly met if it goes ahead. he has asked me out on many occassions, but something has always got in the way and either of us cancelling. we have met but that has only been because we had to (either of us needed something from the other, but never been on a date)we both flirt on phone and in person (when we first met - we met at work, but i dont work there anymore). He touches me, tries to put his arm around me, even tried to hold my hand, gives me hugs, he cant make eye contact with for too long when we are talking. says the sweetest things to me. he tells me everything that is happening in his life, and even explains himself to me (ie he went to a girl dancing place and assured me it wasnt a strip club, an explanation i wouldnt expect from a friend. in fact i wouldnt even have expected him to tell that he went there, he obviously wanted me to know, for which im still obliviuos too). i once asked him, what he would do without me, and he said to me 'dont make me answer that'. when i asked the Q, i wasnt serious but his reply was. he says to me, this is when we are flirting, that there is only one person, and thats him that would help me out for anything and everything.if we do meet, do i tell him that ive fallen in love with him, or should i let him tell me, if he has any feelings for me. neither of us have been in a relationship before. sometimes i feel he does know how i feel and sometimes i feel he likes me, but then he goes cold on me. i've heard from other people that he says one thing and does the other. but when i see him other people, he is not the same person when he is with me. or is he just putting an act in front of me.he calls me hun (which i know most people call each other). sometimes he is really desparate to talk to me, that he'll all he can to spk to me, but then again there are time when things go cold between us. i have noticed, that if we dont spk to each other for a while and when we do, its like we havent had that cold period. with my other friends i can ages with not speaking to them, but not with him. its quite sad, but everytime i get a text or a call, i tink it mite be him (there was times wen it was).i dont what to do. i have this feeling that this date isnt even gona happen. he asked me yest. do i ring or text him to ask where v are gona meet and what time or do i let him contact me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): If he asked you to call him, by all means do so and set up a time and place to go to lunch or dinner!However, I definitely would not tell him you love him. Its not appropriate when you haven't yet begun dating and could very well scare him - you said he sometimes acts cold. Remember, you don't know one another very well as yet, despite all the phone calls and texts. If and when you go out on a date, relax and enjoy it, and remember to take it S L O W!Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): i think you should call him! he obviously wants to have you answer his question so you definetly should if you really want to. dont be afraid to ask!
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