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writes:My boyfriend of nearly 2yrs dumped me over a week ago,because he thought it was the easiest way for me to stop nagging him about his constant drinking binges.Last time i saw him a couple of days ago,he looked very sory 4 himself,because his drinking got him into trouble,and he said he now knows who his mates are and is starting to realise his actions.He finally called me the other day,just asking how i was.Ive been strong,but now im missing him terribly...I dont want to run back to him,should i have a talk with him? or just leave it and let him come back to me?Were both stubburn,I think we could give it 1 more go.Im waiting for him but its so hard,Im getting weaker... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): Reach an agreement about the days he can drink. Then quit the nagging about drinking. If he has to drink every day and can't conform to a couple a days a week then move on. I love to drink, but I'm willing to compromise for a special woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): What do you want to try again for? You are clearly unhappy and dissatisfied about his drinking; he is unhappy with you "nagging" him, but at the same time does not intend to do anything to stop or control his alcohol consumption.
Not a promising situation. ShandyPop is right: just let this one go by the board. Its not worth pursuing or continuing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Be strong, you will be glad about it in the future. Don't go back to him, he won't change and he will just drag you down to his level. You have to be cruel to be kind. Tell him to stop the drink binges and you will consider going back, but if he doesn't then move on. He accuses you of nagging, well then stop, it is his health he is ruining. If i was you i would run like hell.
Take care
xx
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