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writes: My b/f does not kiss me as much. He kisses me quick like goodbye in the morning or if i am laying next to him and kiss him but he does not kiss me like in the beginning--french kissing, loong kisses. Even before we are about to be intimate--sometimes he goes straight for oral stuff or if he does kiss me it is not for very long. Of course more kissing used to a occur before we slept together b/c we were not doing much else..its been over a year of sleeping with him and this is just what i have noticed. Not as much long kissing i guess you can say. Is that normal? Maybe i should say something next time he goes straight for something else like why not kiss me a little more? Is he losing interest and isnt kissing a very intimate thing to do. Does he not want to be intimate with me?
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reader, Midge  +, writes (21 March 2007):
 I dont think its a case of loosing interest!
A lot of guys get to a point where they are so comfortable in their relationship that they want sex, and want to get it over and done with in as quick a time as possible. They are not interested in the foreplay etc. This is not to say all guys are like that, because I know from experience that they arent. But I have experienced the "lets get it over with" and the "6 hour sexual experience". Obviously us girls want the long kisses and intimate cuddling.
Speak to him and say that you love him and want to make love with him, but want the foreplay and the kisses etc. Tell him what you want! If you dont tell him what you want, he wont know and wont give you what you want. Perhaps he thinks that because you havent told him what you want, that what he wants is what you want. (If that makes sense at all!)
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