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writes:In my question from yesterday about how my boyfriend had a profile on a dating website, I asked him if he would delete it for me and he said that he did indeed delete it after he realized his profile was searchable and he received a message from some girl. Should I trust him that he did in fact delete this? I asked him if I could take a look to see if he did delete it the next time I see him and he said "Yes". Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Since he has told you he's okay with you logging onto the site to see that he has in fact deleted his profile, do so!Then, see how things go between you.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (21 March 2007):
 As Kenny said, take a look see for yourself for peace of mind. But what does concern me is that the profile was active and girls were contacting him! From my experiecne searching profiles were someones been on the site and forgotten all about are seldom at the top of the pile!
What I mean by that is that you have to be logging into the site to have it appear, they tend to appear by last log on date.. so that suggests that hes been active on the site! For whatever reason I would have my doubts, as I suspect you have. Afterall you are together and hes online looking at other woman!! Are you supposed to just now trust him ? It will be a long hard road as now this has happend it will always be in the back of your mind! I hope for your sake it was all innocent and a lad being a lad and looking at what else is out there just for curiousity, and that he has now deleted it and that time will tell how much you can then trust him again.
Good luck!
Take care x
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (21 March 2007):
 If your boyfriend says he has deleted his profile from the website, i would be inclined to believe him.
If he haden't deleted it i don't think he would have agreed to you going online and having a look. I suggest you do this anyway just for peace of mind.
Good luck x
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reader, childof1981 +, writes (21 March 2007):
 Well, first I think it's unreasonable to ask him to "delete" his profile. Things don't always work out and he may not want to spend time re-creating it after you break up. If it's hidden that should be good enough. Also, I tend not to assume something nefarious is going on when laziness is the most probable answer. He likely met you, forgot he even had the stupid thing up and went on with life as normal.
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