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anonymous
writes:hi im still a virgin and me and my bf plan to have sex i just dont know if im ready or not and not sure if it will hurt as much as people say it does i would feel so much better if i knew alot more like how do you know if your ready? and does your first time rely hurt? im mostly scared about getting pregnant but none of my friends are virgins and my sister isn't a virgin but i rely want to do it. please help!! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): i think you should try it when you get ready follow your heart don't let anyone pressure you to have sex because they want you to end up like them
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reader, agony aunt j +, writes (21 March 2007):
 well having sex is a big thing and so you're bound to feel a bit nervous. but when you're ready, you're ready. you shouldn't do it just because you want to, but if you honestly think you are ready then you will feel comfortable.
some girls feel pain and some dont as badly, so it just depends. you can prepare by obviously using a condom, and this decreases your chance of getting pregnant. just be careful!
you should feel 100% comfortable before it, so if you're not maybe think twice about doing it. you are only young after all.
But there's a first time for everything and everyone so if you're ready, just relax.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Firstly you are to be 100 percent ready before losing your virginity. Considering you don't know whether you are ready or not shows that you aren't 100 percent ready. Best thing to do is wait until you are 100 percent certain before having sex. And also remember, just because your friends and sister have lost their virginity already doesn't mean that you have to rush to lose yours too. As for how much it hurts it hurts more the first time you have sex than as any other time and how much it hurts goes down the more that you have it. Plus there's some blood the first time round.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (21 March 2007):
 Well, I encountered a few sayings about being ready during the years:
"if you can go into a store and buy condoms without being all embarrassed about it, then you're ready".
"If you can be naked in front of him and not feel the need to cover up, then you're ready"
There were a few other ones, but I don't remember them.
Personally I think that when you're ready you won't be afraid. Maybe a bit nervous, but not afraid. It's kinda like how a person knows their in love, they just know.
As for pain, for some people it hurts and for some it doesn't. In any case, have a long foreplay, be relaxed and use lube, it will make things more fun.
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reader, always have a problem +, writes (21 March 2007):
 you will know if you are ready for sex because you will feel comfortable leading up to it, and also if you realy like (love) the person you are doing it with it will be even better. everyones first time is different, it hurts some people more than others, just take it slow. as long as you use protection and are carefull the chances of you getting pregnant arenot that big. try not to worrie too much and just make sure you feel comfortable good luck x x
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