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writes:IS He Just Getting Cold FeetIm getting married in a few weeks but have had a argument with my partner the weekend because he recieved a text message from a girl at work.Nothing sexually just asking for a copy of a cd. he cheated on me 4 years ago and 2years ago i thought he had again but he swears he didint so i droped it the last few years have been great and i thought i was over it but now ive brought up all this bad feelings and he says we shouldint get married because i dont trust him and he doesint want me bringing it up and how can we move on from this. its driving me nuts i hate feeling like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): He is right, you two shouldn't get married while you have feelings like that. what would be the point of getting married and bringing up all those feelings in the future? You are bound to feel like this if he has done this to you in the past, the feeling just never goes away. Does the person who requested the cd copy know he is with someone? All questions are bound to be going around in your head. You need to sit down and talk to him and then decide just how you feel about the future with him. If these feelings are going to keep coming up in the future then i think i would review whether i want to be with him at all, never mind marrying him!
Take care
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