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writes:i'm 24 years old i got dumped 2 weeks before xmas and i thought i would never find anyone like my ex. was always tight downstairs if u get what i mean.now after we split i've been doing some stupid thingslike driveing a car with no lience or insurancelike look for love or a new girlfriend over the net.my mom cryed before i started driveing and now i'm driveing its giveing everyone in my family the reason to say it's my fault do u think its my fault?my mom like 3 guys 1 called chris 1 called keith and 1 called johnny my mom dated chris but my younger brother told her 2 dump him she did but he always touching her its creepy.my mom likes keith because hes rich but the problem with this is? hes married or as a girlfriend and he always touches my mom up everywhere between her legs her boobs everywhere and in front of her own kids.my mom did like johnny till he desided to say he was gonna kill himself in front of a 18 year old kid on her 18th birthday and everyone hates him because she started crying and when he told her 2 stop he went 2 punch her in the face.ok thats y my mom crys just so u know. so everyone blames me for my mom crying but i say no its not.and now my new problem that my mom seems 2 have is. i went on a date saturday to meet a 16 year old girl i've met over the neti really like her shes fit good looking and always says nice things about me. shes skinny not like the others i metok i went saturday but i saw her with 2 lads and i thought she was gonna jump me or something.i said i would see her today (sunday) and i went again. we went 2 cinema and watch a flim and i drove her home.she asked for a kiss and i snoged her right there in the car. and i asked her what does she want the kiss 2 mean she told me what ever i want i wanna r-ship i'm so bored on my own.tonight she told me she loves me 6-7 hrs after our date sould i be worried that she's rushin this just a lil bit?i just got over my ex girlfriend just a week ago because we was still haveing sex will a week ago and now my ex is moveing on and i'm sick of standing still i wanna move on and i really like this girl.my little sister thinks i'm a pervert because she's 17 and my new girl is 16 what sould i do?i really do like this girl. shes amazin my mom thinks i'm being a prat but i dunno shes not like meany 16 year old girls.i wanna date her. i want your advice on this because i'm kind of lookin for answers i dont know the answersthe questions1) is this girl rushing things?2) do u think i'm a bad son for what i'm doing?just so u all know everyone in my family hated the fact that i was just a lil loser sat is room before i got with my ex now i'm out and about they hate it i cant win both ways.i dont work. and dont need 2.
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reader, Altindie  +, writes (5 February 2007):
 1. Yes the girl is rushing things, but don't you think you are too?
2. You're not a bad son, you're not a bad person, you're confused. Instead of dragging a girlfriend into things to 'solve all your problems' do some soul searching on your own for a while. If your new girl really loves you she'll wait for you and be happy for you while you sort your life out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): The age of consent in the UK is 16, not 18.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): Man...
Your moms love life is not your fault.
If you sleep with the 16 year old, she can sue your ass for rape because you're over 18. Be VERY careful.
Just because your ex moved on, doesnt mean you have to..
Moving on takes mental and emotional strength..its not something you just decide by dating someone else.
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