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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for 1 year now and the last 2 week holiday i went on without her was pure hell. Now another holidsay us rolling around and i really really want to go but i dont want to go through the hell of being apart from her again. Suggestions ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Carina  +, writes (5 February 2007):
 It's brilliant that you want to be with your girlfriend so much and miss her when you're away, but it's also very important to maintain your own space when you're in a relationship. Research shows that relationships tend to work better and last longer if each person leads their own life part of the time(even if they're married). Having a two week holiday without her can only do you both good. Remember 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'! Go on your holiday and focus on enjoying it. Treasure your time alone but take photos and notes of things to share with her when you get back. Imagine your reunion at the end of the holiday...lovely!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): If you have got some money, can you not just book your gf on to the same holiday then she can come with you? If not, take a picture of your gf and make sure you call her every day. Or just don't go. The answer to this question is in your hands. P.S. Your so sweet!
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