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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and he wants to finally "eat me out". I also want him too, but I am really scared that my vagina smells to bad. I wash and clean like every other woman, but I don't understand why it does! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007): I am a guy and I love the sent of a women, that smell turns me into an animal with an instant hard-on ... it's a let down to me if she does have a smell ... a women should smell like a women :) ... i hope this helps.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): some guys actually LOVE that smell. its a vagina, they shouldn't expect anything other than that. and you could always try something like pouring chocolate down there, my friend did it once, she said it lasted longer, cause the guy loved chocolate.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): not too sure on Jadeys pinion in terms of how we "love" the smell. im sure some men do but by no means everybody. "going down" is a procedure i enjoy cos of the pleasure it gives my gf, but the vaginal secretions a woman produces can taste a little unusual. i doubt there is anything you can do about this, but you can make sure your neat and tidy down there (maybe a wax around that region and what bits you dont want wax trim them with scissors to keep it tidy. being tidy down there will make you more confident also.have a nice shower etc etcalso could get checked for thrush etc etc if you have a bit of time.if he doesn;t like the taste of the secretions much he may well keep his tongue around your clit (which is just skin!) and use his fingers for other stuff :-)
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female
reader, jabey +, writes (4 February 2007):
what women dont always realise is that men actually love the natural smell of a woman, they dont always want to smell perfume and deodrants. Its all about animal instinct. They love the taste and smell of our natural odour, so promis you girl you may not like the smell but actually your boyfriend will love it. So really dont worry relax and enjoy.
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female
reader, TygersDream +, writes (4 February 2007):
It's okay, EVERY woman goes through that anxiety! Here's a site that may help answer why to all your anxieties about vaginal odor:
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Sexuality/1015.html
If you are worried about vaginal odor, consult a female physician/gynae and have a basic checkup like a pap smear test or a pelvic exam. Even if you're not sexually active, you have to go see one regularly. The link below will tell you what to expect and what to look for.
http://womenshealth.about.com/od/gynecologicalhealthissues/a/gyn101.htm
And last of all, assuming that you are healthy but you're still worried about it - trim your pubes, wash it, shampoo it like it's going out for a night on the town! Feeling nervous is completely understandable, but then it'll be completely pleasurable too (assuming he knows what he's doing).
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