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writes:Hi im sam and i have been going out with a guy for 8 months now. last night however i kissed my ex boyfriend and i know that he really does like me. the guy im going out with now, i only went out with on the rebound of my ex. I dont know what to do because i do love both my boyfriend and my ex. I told my boyfriend about what happened the other night and he forgave me because he says his love for me is unconditional. I really don't know what to do. Only a few weeks ago i found out that my ex left me to protect me from some bad things he was doing back then. I dont know what to do, please help.
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reader, someday2010  +, writes (4 February 2007):
Well if you have unresolved issues with your ex, you really need to work it out before you move on anyways. So tell your new bf that you need some alone time to think things out. Then try to see where your ex will lead you. You never know things may just be better the second time around.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (4 February 2007):
 Okay, first of all you DON'T love your current boyfriend or you wouldn't even THINK about having a relationship with your ex. Secondly, you don't love your ex either or you wouldn't be with your current boyfriend.
You said your boyfriend left you because he was doing "bad things" back then, how do you know he still isn't doing these things? What sort of bad things were they? If he can do it once he can do it again. Do YOU want to get involved in it all? It must have been dangerous when he didn't want you involved.
My advice to you love is to break up with your boyfriend AND not to see your ex. It's only a matter of time until you dump your boyfriend and he doesn't deserve to be hurt like this. I think you're confused and don't really know what you want. Take time out, away from guys for the time being until you get your head straight and know what you really want.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): So, your going to break your current bfs heart by making him the fall guy?He's obviously a decent guy for already forgiving you kissing you ex where as your ex obviously isnt, knowing your spoken for but making his advance.Your ex made his choice and left. Your happy with this new guy right?. Where's the choice? What ever you do, be honest with your current guy, being the re bound is no fun and hurts
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reader, katy1990 +, writes (4 February 2007):
 I'd say stay with this new guy he obviously loves you(to forgive you so easily) and you love him and this ex if he gave up on you to protect you from what HE was doing Maybe he shouldn't have done it in the first place and whats to stop him doing it again... and everything happens for a reason so maybe you were destined to meet this new guy and not be with your ex after all hope i've helped! Katy x
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