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*eogurl
writes:Ok. So i've been seeing this guy for nearly two months now. But before that he was my best friend for like 4years. Before we started seeing each other we were on the phone all the time talking about normal teenage stuff. Anyway, now when he calls me it's all about sex. He wants me to have sex and give him oral. He's also asked for a naked pic of me so he can get off when i'm not there. I keep saying no to the sex and that. But i'm worried that if i keep putting him off he wont like me. But at the same time i'm also worried that if i do what he wants he'll just move on, though i know he's not like that. He is always saying he loves me and has even proposed to me, more than once just to prove his love for me.Anyone got any ideas as to what i should do.Many thanx
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reader, geogurl +, writes (6 February 2007):
geogurl is verified as being by the original poster of the question I just wanna thank both of you for your comments. My bf and i had a big talk today, and have decied to take it easy, he understands that i just am not ready for that yet, and he says he'd love me no matter what. He said he didn't mean to be pushy that's no how he wants our relationship to be.
So thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): You don't sound too relaxed about this relationship. You are too worried that if you don't do as he wants then he will finish with you. That is no way to go on. You should be doing what you want, when YOU want to do things, not him. If is your life and your body, so stop worrying. If he does go off because you don't have sex when he wants then TOUGH!!!!- he isn't for you if he does that.
Take care and have sex when you are good and ready!!
xx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (5 February 2007):
 You don't put up with this. You're obviously not comfortable about having sex and giving him oral so don't. A real friend wouldn't force you to do this and be disappointed when you didnt.
CD
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