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writes:hello im 16 and i have a bf and we have been going out for over a month now.today i went round his house and we were sitting on his bed just talking. then we started play fighting and then he was pretendng to strangle me (only pretend! lol). then i said "go on just kill me, i have nothing in my life to live for!" for a joke.then he said "oh i see, so you dont love me!?! laughing."then i said no, i do, i do really etc...."anyway cos he said "oh so you dont love me". does that mean he loves me? did he mean actually love as in 'in love' do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (5 February 2007):
 I think it is possible although I kinda go with the other responders to this question in that you shouldn't lay too much on this at this stage. Have fun, enjoy each other and let love flourish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): hi i wrote this question: it kinda sounded like he expected me to love him just by the way he said "dont you love me?"
he sounded as though he loved me and that he expected me to love him.
write back :)
ps do you think it is possible for him to of fallen inlove with me even though we have only been together for a month? i hope so...
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reader, AskEve +, writes (5 February 2007):
 He was only "feeling you out," to see what you'd say. It was all in good fun and now he knows you really like him. Hey that's what relationships are all about! If you can't have fun with your boyfriend then what's the point of having one! I wouldn't worry too much about this. Yes, he likes you but don't get too carried away with it all.
Just have fun!
Eve
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (5 February 2007):
 Try not to ready to much into it so soon.
Yes he is curious of how much you like him but it gives not clues about his feelings towards you.
Playfighting is good fun that is all.
Be cool and take it slow, he will tell you direct when he is ready.
Good luck x
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (5 February 2007):
It seems to me like he was 'fishing' to see how you felt. People do this all the time, another good example is when you are talking to somebody you like and you, for example, ask if they went out and 'pulled' at the weekend.
I wouldn't want to prejudge this guys feelings without knowing him. What we can say is that since he is bothered enough to 'fish' it certainly means that he has some feelings for you. Whether he would go as far as say love is open to question. It's possible he wasnt even aware that is consciously what he was doing to be honest.
Like I said its impossible for us to tell you how he feels. However, he wouldnt have asked if he wasn't concerned to know. Hope that helps. Take care.
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