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writes: Is it normal when nobody is around except you and to like pretend there are people and talk and stuff ..in your head or out loud. Like, you can even look over and imagine they are there. Today i kinda did that and kind of imagined hanging out with other guys and talking about stuff but i have a boyfriend so now i feel guilty! I could even be sitting there bragging i give good head like why guys always try to get me to stayI think when i was doing all that, i even imagined i wasn't with him. Should i feel guilty or tell him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): Don't tell your bf, it happens to us all. I dream of winning the lotto, going out and telling my kids and spending it all the time. And i have conversations with my head with loads of people, about loads of things, nothing to worry about, it's kinda healthy and keeps us sane.
Enjoy life with your bf and stop worrying.
Take care
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (4 February 2007):
 Nah, no need to tell him. WE all have fantasies or desires that we fulfill in our heads. That's all it is. He has some of his own fantasies, I'm sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): Best not to tell your boyfriend as you havnt done it for real thus you havnt cheated on him. Men can be quite insecure (like myself, hell we all have failings) so seeing as you didnt say this to a real bloke then its fine. Just dont let it progress into making your fantasy real. I.e as long as you dont start to go around saying that to other blokes its all ok.
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reader, jabey  +, writes (4 February 2007):
i think its probably best not to tell him this. Its always ok to have a good imagination, and fantasise about anything really. I must admit what you do does sound a little unusual, but we all have our different ways. Maybe this makes you feel more confident inside, in which case thats not a bad thing. I certainly would not feel guilty, you have not been unfaithful or deceitful. We all need our time on our own, and even when you are in a loving relationship its ok to be attracted to others. If you know you love your boyfriend and he loves you do not worry. Just keep quiet enjoy your relationship, and keep confident in yourself.
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