I have a good friend I really like...but I can't tell if he is gay like me? What do you think?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm 17 and Im A Gay male Theres this kid i like hes also 17 but I'm just really confused whether he's gay or not mayb bi....i just cant tell i dont want to do anything stupid and make a mistake and lose him as a friend(that all i have of him so far his friendship)i have signs of him like when he grabs my ass or just when he is passing by he'll have his hand touch my ass sometimes he'll put his arm around my shoulder and get me close while were walking(even in school)he has kissed me on the forhead and hes always calling me "pa" or "papi" but at when he does that i cant really tell cuz its a Spanish thing its show you care. Every day im with him i always try to find a way to get close to him and flirt a little bit but im afraid of the results. I have kissed him on the cheek before and he hasnt said anything he laughed. I know wat your thinking that these would be signs of being gay but he likes this girl at school sometimes he'll talk about her ill see him at school with her with his arm around her shoulder he'll go with her instead of with me sometimes he talks to her through the phone for hours late at night. I dont know what to do what to think its aggravating i dont know what to do how to reacte...i just need to know what should i do with this problem i really like him but i dont know if he's bi

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