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writes: My lad's being really off with me lately then saying to my friends that I'm the one being off with him and tells them he worships me and loves me more than anything and never wants to lose me etc...but today he was in a right mood and took it out on me then made it out to be all my fault and I'm sick of him doing this to me he didn't even say bye to me when he went today just walked off then my mate rang me and said that my lad had been talking to him saying that I seem fed up with him and hes angry today and wanted to hit someone. I'm sick of him saying he worships me but treating me like shit. I haven't been off with him at all and to be honest I don't know what to do I love him to bits I know that but I can honestly say I feel absolutely nothing for him right now. I cried my eyes out, got angry and now I'm past caring. What can I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, AskEve +, writes (3 February 2007):
You need to decide do you really want this relationship? If you do, then you need to talk to him, tell him you find you can't do right for doing wrong with him. Ask him if there's anything bothering him and if he says you always seem off with him then ask him to give you an example. Maybe you are and don't even notice. You definitely need to get this aired though.
Let him know you love him to bits and if there's anything you can do to make things better between you he needs to let you know. You have your say too of course but in a nice way, without a big argument.
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