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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I know most women don't orgasm through intercourse alone but is it normal not to feel anything at all??? When I am with someone, I get really turned on by foreplay and everything but as soon as he enters me and we start having sex, I don't feel anything at all. Even after he has climaxed and withdrawn, I am still not horny (like some women are) so I don't feel the need to get him or myself to bring me to an orgasm, so basically sex just feels like a big let-down. Is it normal for women to feel absolutely nothing during intercourse, or is there something wrong with me??Any help would really be appreciated thanks :-)!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): I don't feel anything either. I'm glad I'm not alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): This isn't about comparing yourself to other women.
For you, this would appear to be normal. You know what you want so maybe prolong the foreplay.
Are you timid about oral stimulation? Are you willing to explore your body and his more?
Do you have long term relationships or do you prefer short term relationships?
Perhaps you need a long term relationship where you have an established trust in your partner. With this, perhaps you will feel and experience more.
Not everyone likes short term and one nighters. With this sex can be...cold, perfunctionary.
How do you see yourself? Do you find yourself attractive? Do you like yourself, love yourself? Are you relatively happy?
Mood and state of mind effect the sexual experience as well.
There are many factors that can be at play here.
So for now, just be in the moment and relax. Don't worry about what you should be doing and feeling. Focus on what you are feeling.
Best Wishes.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (2 February 2007):
 Some women are very sensitive when they have penetrative sex, others, like yourself don't feel much and need clitoral stimulation as well. I would suggest you try a clitoral stimulator that he can wear in the form of a ring that goes around the penis with a vibrating stimulator attached. See link:
http://www.adamevetoys.com/vibrators/clitoral/triple-clit-flicker-pc-11086-549.aspx?cm_mmc=GGL-_-vibrator-_-clitoral-_-clitoral+stimulation%2cGGL-_-vibrator-_-clitoral-_-clitoral+stimulation%2cGGL-_-vibrator-_-clitoral-_-clitoral+stimulation%2cGGL-_-vibrator-_-clitoral-_-clitoral+stimulation
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