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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my bf has 2 kids and i have 1 he is 14 years older than me and his ex wife is causing trouble 4 us the most recent thing she has said is she has accused me of being a child abuser i love his 2 kids and would neva do any thing 2 harm them in any way he knows that but still belives her. i love him but he doesnt act like he trusts me wat should i do???
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reader, depaiva  +, writes (5 February 2007):
 Your problem here seems to be that the ex is getting in between the two of you and she'll do anything to try to split the two of you-she's probably jealous. Communication is so vital here-you need to let him know how you feel, tell him you don't appreciate him taking her side and you don't feel any support from him. What reason does he have to believe her? Is there clarity in their relationship-do they both know where they stand? And do you know where you stand with him? There are so many things you both need to sit down and talk about and in the end you need to both figure out if this is what you want-you've also got your own child to consider.
I always say "fight for love". So don't give up on your relationship but don't sit back and hope things will work themselves out. You need to talk to him-I don't think the issue is the accusation of you abusing the kids, it goes deeper then that and you deserve to know where you stand.
Good luck and I hope things work out for you all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007): Get rid! Sorry to be brutal but he believed his ex over you! I wouldn't be too pleased with that! Child Abuse is a very serious matter that should not be taken lightly! Tell him you are not an abuser, never have been and never will! That is disgusting that he believed her. Don't put up with that. The fact that he is 14 years older than you has nothing to do with it. Talk to him and put him in the picture but i would kick him to the kerb!
Take care
xx
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