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writes:My ex from over a year ago but thing still happen with us. Before he didnt want to speek 2 me but me, him and his friend went in his house and he was calling me as usuall and then smeared water on my face and it made me bang my head and I ran in his living room on the sofa upset and he kept hittin me with cushions and his friend recorded it and now there going to show a girl who hates me and i hate her and she likes my ex and he likes her and he said theres one person who isn't coming and thats her (meaning me)because we was going to go to the shops and now he is probably going to go out somewhere with that girl who he is going to show the video to tonight as she sent him a text saying are you coming out tonight but he treats me like sh*t calling me all the time, hitting me and everything messing my head up saying he likes me , getting things off me and showing signs that he doesnt want to do it agen and acting like he doesn't fancy me. It really upsets me knowing it was me once and I have all the memories which wont go away what get me upset everyday and the way he treats me now and the way he did. He is the only one I have ever loved and I want to be with him because we have so much in common and everything we do is really special to me I hate this its sh*t and so is life it has been for months I feel used and empty I used to be a pretty happy person without things like these getting me down .
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reader, AskEve +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Things were good with your ex once love but people change. The guy has no respect for you, he's being mean and spiteful to you... do you want to continue seeing someone like that? Come on, you're much more sensible than that. So what if he shows this girl the video, does he think it will make him look cool? He seems very childish and immature. I'd forget about him, you deserve much better than that! Build up your confidence and self esteem and move on. There are lots of nice guys out there who would love to meet someone just like you so kick this one to the kerb and look for someone more deserving of you.
Here is a link that will help you build up your confidence and self esteem. I hope it helps.
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/self_confidence_tips.htm
Eve
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (2 February 2007):
 Well if he does show the video to anyone, then he is pathetic and a huge waste of space. Let him go with this other girl. If she finds the video humourous, then she is just as pathetic, so they are well suited.
Don't lose sleep over a disgrace of a guy. You said you have a lot in common. Like what?? You were a happy person before he came into your life, you will be happier with him back out of it.
Trust me, you will look back on this and laugh at how pathetic he is. You will laugh and feel silly for being upset about it all.
Forget about the loser and find somebody who deserves to be with you.
Best of luck
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reader, CarrieMagdelene  +, writes (2 February 2007):
 Girl, this is a big problem, huh? This is why many women like myself vow to never let thier boyfriends make sex tapes of them or take pictures...If they ever getted P-Oed, they'll show them around town and to people you hate. Another thing, this is abuse on your part...He's mentally and physically abusing you. And there's no excuse for it. This is even a crime he could be arrested for! I'd tell someone you love and trust about this. :) NOT your boyfriend, lol...Like a parent or an aunt. In the mean time, try to stay clear of your boyfriend and get some help. Remember: The most important thing is YOU. -Carrie
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