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How can I tell her that I think of her more as a sister, than of a girlfriend?

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Question - (2 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *upidschokehold writes:

ok. so to spit it out first im bisexual

and the chic im talking about in this is also bisexual

anyways

this girl likes me alot.

shes always walking with me flirting with me and always trying to convince me my girlfriend isnt good for me.

i like this girl

but not this way she is way to close of a "sister" then a girlfriend. i dont know how to tell her i dont like her... so what should i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007):

All these are good points-- stop flirting and tell her. Also, you might like the attention on some level, and she can tell. Think about this, and if you are doing anything, cut those things out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007):

You need to put her in the picture incase she gets too carried away with the idea that there is a future with you. Let her know exactly how you feel and then there are no misunderstandings.

Take care

xx

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A female reader, Saz464 United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2007):

Saz464 agony auntDon't cause unnecessary pain! Just don't flirt back with her, it's simple.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007):

I would tell her that she is special to you but not in that way you need to be very clear. It may hurt a bit but not as much as if you let it go on.

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