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writes:i'm very worried about the girl i'm about to meet.i'm 24 year old i've just come out of a 15 months r-ship and now i'm bored and want a new r-ship.i went on this website called " faceparty " and this girl aged 16 has gotten my msn and is now wanting to meet me i will not lie i'm impressed because shes cute for a 16 year old. and i think the age is not a big deal.but she keeps wanting to see pictures of me. i think she may want them so she can organize a gang of lads to jump me or something. am i being stupid?i met this other girl 20 years old but i dunno because she got a very colourful past. and is not as pretty as the 16.this 16 year old will live about an hr away will it work? i dunno if i just wanna tick of i've slept with a 16 year old but i was hoping like seeing her like every other night i drive so getting 2 her will not be a problem.but the problem i have is she's being 2 nice i'm not a good looking lad i will not lie 2 u i'm not but she keeps saying i'm a stunner she's so nice and sexy like she cant find someone close 2 herdo u think i'm being stupid?she doesn't want me 2 meet me her house or walk her home after we been 2 watch a flim is that werld?any help would be greatmy ex girlfreind thinks she doesn't wanna her family 2 know what she doing. and is some type of werldo but i'm still thinking i'm going an hr out of my town 2 see her if anything happens i'm screwed so 2 speak. is there any special way i sould handle this? my lil sister who is 17 thinks i'm a pervert because i wanna date a 16 who is in college. learning about massages and hair dressing.and i love getting massages.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007): No, you should not meet this girl because she is too young, and if you are caught with her by the police, you will be considered a sexual predator, because you met her on the Internet. If you have an MSN account your e-mails to her, and hers to you have already been recorded. MSN runs the show MSNBC To Catch a Predator. MSN is working with law enforecement agencies all over the U.S. ib the Internet to search out men you look for young teen age girls.If you meet this girl, it could be the biggest mistake you will make for the rest of your life. The police in both your communities may already know about the e-mails that you and her are exchanging. I would tell her politely thank for the the falltery, but no thank you. You might not think that being a 24 yr. old male and he a 16 yr. old minor may not be a big deal. Believe me it is! If I were you I would block her from futher contacting you on your MSN e-mail account...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): dont do it!!!! its sick! shes probably inisent, and scared, in a weird way! she doesnt want you to met with her infront of her house because her parents are not going 2 aprove of it are they? mine wouldnt if i was 16 and my parnter was 24! maybe when your older, but not now, i personally wouldnt even be friends until u no shes ok, !
shes still very young, and shes doesnt no which way is up or which wat id down! shes still young, and learning!
i would leave her alone for now, or just be mates,! wouldnt go farther! be careful, and she should be!!
buts shes to young!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): actually crazy etc as it sounds its ENTIRELY possible she is in with these lads to jump you. it has been reported and absolutely sounds like that was quite possibly scenario then !players work in all sorts of strange ways sometimes. a 16 year old girl is obvious 'bait'.
pay for a proper massage and think more with the 'top brain' son
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reader, I Waited For The One +, writes (3 February 2007):
I Waited For The One is verified as being by the original poster of the question i went this morning and i saw her standing outside the cinema.
and when i parked my car these 2 lads was stood with her.
and when i txt 2 say i arrived these lads was looking for me with her.
and when i txt her 2 say i had 2 go and i said something about these 2 lads. they started looking for my car.
i lefted she told me just an hr ago they was 2 lads tappin a fag of her. why would 2 lads tappin a fag look for me with her if she didn't know them?
i was a bit neverous and now not borthed shes 16 i'm gonna met her again 2moz but this time in my town.
she's in collage (this is the united kingdom we live at 16) her birthday is 4 days before mine. so when shes 17 i'm 25 not many people can stay that.
thank you again.
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reader, banana_pancake +, writes (3 February 2007):
 I think it's a bad idea. She's 16, so either year 11 or sixth form. She has other priorities, and although an 8 year age gap is nothing once you're older, for a 16 year old, that's a LOT.
Pursuing it as a friendship is fine, but I wouldn't advise taking it further. Even though you're not a stunner, it's surely not so hard to find someone you like who's 20+.
I mean...would you like someone your age to be dating your little sister? It's a bit odd.
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (3 February 2007):
 she probably doesnt want you to go near her house because she knows her parents won't approve of their 16 year old daughter going out somewhere with a 24 year old man she met on the internet. i really dont think she's planning to get a group of lads to jump you though. i mean i'm assuming you havent done or said anything really really terrible to her! but to be honest i feel a bit uncomfortable about the age gap. 8 years isnt a lot if she was 40 and you were 48 but she's only 16. she's still a child.
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