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writes: I'm very confused...something weird is happeneing to me. I have always been a highly ethical girl and somehow I'm rite now in a dillema about choosing one guy among two people who love me. One of them is someone i have been going out for the past 3 years. i was very sad and lonely because my first bf moved to another city. i had no friends around or my bf (who had NO time for me). During this time i met someone else...he is the stuff dreams are made of...i've never met anyone who understands me so well...he is very encouraging and the things that my first bf could never be, the second guy is the kind of guy my family would absolutely love ( my mum actually hates my current bf ). I dont know who i love but both want to marry me... when i think of the first guy i look at how i cannot break my committment which has been through a lot of comprimising on my part, still quite smooth and when i see the other guy...i feel happy supported loved, i wont be going far if i say he is perfect for me and someone who will be loved by my family. Besides other things..my current bf is 2 years younger to me and the guy i've just met is 5 years elder to me. both live in other cities but my current bf is going to the Geneva to study for 1.5 years. By the end of this year i have to decide asap with whom to continue my relation since it's driving me crazy...i'm confused..please advice Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2006): choose one and give me the rest.... lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2006): Who make you feel happiest and makes you believe you can do anything in this world? Who do you see as being a most loving, supportive husband who can provide for his family? Who is your best friend?
That is who you should choose. Be wise and ignore if he is "popular" with Mom. It isn't Mom who is marrying the young man; it's you.
Best of Wishes.
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reader, shania  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 From what i can make of it,your 1st boyfriend abandoned you and left you to get on with it..so you were sad and lonely which was understandable but you went on to meet your 2nd boyfriend who has made you happy and contented.Well if that was me,i would choose your 2nd fella,he sounds much more reliable and he was there when you needed him...i feel that your trying to hang on to the past with the 1st man but leaving out the bad bits.You had unfinished business with your ex but you did split up for a reason...HE WALKED AWAY.Saying that,it is down to you on what you should do but ask yourself this...Could you trust your ex not to leave you again? Also there's another thing to think about...Out of the 2 men,who could you live without? Your head and not your heart will answer that.
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