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writes: right this is really confusing. i met a lad at christmas time last year. we've been on and off since then. We had two major big splits. The first one was because he had another girlfriend n didnt tell me n the second was because i had a one nite stand with a lad we both knew. I have now realised i really love him. Ive told him this and it took him a while to say it back but now he does. He has another girlfriend and i have recently got another boyfriend. Thing is when we are out in town we both get together. He says he loves me n i love him too! but then he says hes falling in love with his new gf. i no im not in love with my new bf so i dont no what to do. I dont want to hurt my new bf so should i break up with him? PLease help
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 If you don't love your boyfriend, then finish with him. It isn't fair stringing him along and using him to fall back on should the new relationship not work out.
This has the potential to get messy and hurt everyone involved, especially your boyfriend and his girlfriend. They are oblivious to all this, yet they will be the ones who are going to get hurt the most.
If you care for your boyfriend, dont hurt him and do the right thing. Let the poor guy move on.
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