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writes: After my ex dumped me, I was a wreck for several months. I met a new friend who had also recently been dumped. We helped each other out in our misery. A few times we messed around. Neither of us wanted to be the other person's rebound. So we remained close friends. Now she is dating someone. I am finally over my ex and beginning to have feelings for her. Should I tell her?
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reader, camille  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 If you tell her how you feel, be prepared that she may not feel the same and that the situation hasn't changed. Maybe the fact you are now over your ex has made you see her in a different way too and maybe, just maybe that's a rebound thing with someone you've become close to and feel safe with after the bad break up?
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reader, DannySanto +, writes (5 September 2006):
 Yes! The worst she can say is that she can't because she has a boyfriend, and wants to remain friends. But dont let it stop you otherwise you may regret not doing it, which is likely.
I undersand your doubts, like it may become awkward afterwards if she wants to remain friends, but it shouldnt. You've both fooled around together and still remained friends because it was for the best at the time, which shows that you both have sound judgement. Why shouldnt stay friends after youve told her your feelings?
You never know, she may actually have feelings for you, but you'll never know unless you take that next step.
Good luck!
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