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writes: i am 17 and my boyfriend is considering leaving me because he feels he is always spending his time worrying about how i am and if i am ok. we ve had such a good relationship and i dont want to lose him. Reply to this Question
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reader, DannySanto +, writes (5 September 2006):
 Well, first of all it depends on what your boyfriend is worrying about. It could depend on how strongly he feels for the situation. Is it because you have a problem that hes worrying? Or that he worries about when your with other guys? Or does he just worry about you in general?If he just worries about you in general, its not your fault, it's actually quite unhealthy for him to worry about you so much that he cant take it, unless he has good reason to worry.If you havent reaasured him already, do so! But by reassuring him, i dont mean a quick word and a pat on the back, make sure that what you tell him comes from the heart and is emotional. He's less likely to worry about you if you show you are confident enough to deal with whatever he is worrying about.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 Does he have any reason for this constant worry or is it something that is 'from him' as it were? I mean is it something that there is really no cause for him to do. Obviously he cares about you very much and maybe because this is the first time he has felt this way somebody its causing something of an emotional overload.
In general I would reassure him you are ok and if there is anything that could be causing him extra concern then try and remove that. Tell him that while you understand and appreciate his concern very much there really is no need to worry so much and that as a women you are capable of looking after yourself when needs be. In general I would hope this is something you two could work through. Good luck.
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