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anonymous
writes: Hi, i hav been with my boyfriend 4 nearly 2 years now and when we have sex i really enjoy it but i just cant manage 2 orgasm. I get a lovely feeling but when i get this feeling i want to stop i just cant seem to let my self ejaculate. What am i doing wrong and what can i do?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (5 September 2006):
I have your problem too, as do many women. It is hard for some women to have an orgasm during sex, as unless the penis touches your g spot, the clitoris is on the outside so doesn't really get as much attention as it needs during sex. This is nothing to worry about, why not try other positions to try and get your g spot?
Apart from relaxing more and all the usual stuff, you just have to accept that maybe this isn't going to happen for you. It never has for me and I still enjoy sex. Lot's of women write on here with your problem but sadly, that's just not the way our bodies are made.
Good luck.
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