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writes: I've fallen in love with a close friend. She's a genius, she's funny, she's kind, she speaks 5 fluent languages and she's the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. A few months ago, just before I found out she was with another guy, I tried to tell her how I feel, but she made it clear that she wants me as a friend. She's single again now, and even after what she said, I still love her. Half of me says "you did your best, just give up and be friends", but the other half says "never give up, you can't argue with how you feel". I just don't know what to do. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Kanda  +, writes (6 September 2006):
My best friend is a guy and he says the same thing about me.. but its sad because I think hes very repulsive and I like him only as a friend. It may be too hard for you to continue being friends with her if your feelings keep comming back. If you can handle her being with other men and tellign ehr boy problems to you then good but otherwise I would watch out because most likely you may head towards a hard rejection. If she really liked you she would ahve said something ( seeing that you are already friends) If anything she may be able to help you find a good girl like her self- she can help you out.
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reader, Tine  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 if you honestly like this girl so much then i say give it another go. If she knocks you back this time then i suggest you take a step back. By pestering her all the time will not only make her mad at you but in time she will grow to hate you and thats something that you defintely dont want. Or try just being good friends with her, if shes happy with that then at least you'll still get to spend time with her!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (5 September 2006):
 It does sound like you really like this girl, so I think you will regret it if you don't give it one more go. Ask her again, let her know how much you care for her, buy her flowers etc and really, just give it your best shot. You know her well, do something that you know she will love and make it really romantic.
If it doesn't work this time, you don't want to alienate her as a friend so let it go if she says no again. Hope she takes the bait this time!
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