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writes: My husband and I have been together for five years, but recently got married in May 2006. I am five months pregnant with our second child and he doesn't seem to love me. I am having a hard time with the weight I am putting on. He knows I am an active woman that will lose it all once again, but all he seems to say is he wants the girl in the Tommy jeans (the jeans I wore before I was pregnant and was much smaller). I have tried talking to him about our many problems, but all he seems to do is turn them around or make them my fault. He spends all his time next door with a neighbor guy. I feel if he wanted to hang out with his buddy all the time he should never have gotten married or had a family. I understand hanging out with friends every now and again, but not every night. We had our first free night alone without kids since our honeymoon. We went to eat and shopping for our nieces birthday present. When we came home he sat on one end of the couch and I sat at the other. All he could talk about (when he did talk) was I wonder where the neighbor is. "I want to go drink beer." Our night alone and he is concerned about his buddy. He later went into the bathroom and used is pocket pussy. I was right there, but that was more or a turn on I guess. He has been getting ruder and ruder and doesn't listen to my feelings at all. He is really mad at me because I refuse to suck his dick anymore also. I am sick of always pleasing him and him never showing me an ounce of attention. The only time he will do something to me is when he wants his dick sucked. A few weeks ago we were cuddling and when it didn't go the way he wanted (his dicked sucked) he got all mad and stormed out of the bedroom. Can you please help me with my marriage? Is it hopeless?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 April 2008):
The fact he has changed so dramatically during your pregnancy is really worrying. Do you think it will get better when there is a screaming baby taking up your time.
How dare he tell you that you aren't sexy any more?
You need to ask him if there is any future for you and what he wants to do with his life.
Perhaps go and stay with your mum or a friend or relative for a few weeks so he can actually find out what life without you would be like.
You have to work out if your life is better with him or without him. Put you and your kids first.
Good Luck!! xx
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