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writes: my girl doesn't want to spend time with me,i can't touch her(not sex),only see me when passing by,doesn't express herself/feelings to me, take things without returning them,turn down outing request,doesn't feel fry with me.but want me to be coming to their house.is she ok for me Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 September 2006):
I would say she is playing you for a fool and you need to either talk to her and tell her how she is behaving and how you feel and see if it makes a difference to her behaviour or get out and find yourself someone that will want to be with you the way you want to be with them and respect you.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2006): Is she OK for you? Are you kidding? No one in their right mind would say yes to this question.
You don't describe a relationship at all. Get yourself some self-respect and dignity and find yourself a real girlfriend.
You are being treated like a doormat. Stop being walked over.
I suggest you take some time out and have some deep time along working out why you would allow yourself to settle for someone who obviously does not love you, nor care about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2006): U sure she's your girlfriend? What do you define as a "girlfriend"?
You sound very very very very young or at least, very very very very premature. I think you need to step back and concentrate more on building your life, learn about things, acquire more knowledge before accepting intimate companionship. Seems like you are very very very far from being ready.
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