| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: hiya...... well me n my boyfriend have been 2geva now for 6weeks. n i love him but its asif he dosent want 2 see me because he lives 20mins away n still there is always an excuse not 2 see me. and he finshes me ova stupid little things really hurting. constantly askin me 2 come out with him and his ex's and he just constantly talks bowt him ex's 2 me. i really dont no what to do. do i stay with him and try n work through it? or do i finish it n try get him out of my life?
View related questions:
his ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (27 September 2006):
 haha is that a trick question??? Hunny he's a jerk!!! Too bad I can't really write bad words in this site, otherwise I would be calling him other names. Next time he talks about his ex tell him: If you like her so much then go with her and forget about me!!! My boyfriend lives and a hour and a half away and he always comes to see me.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2006): Please, take note of what everyone else has written!
This boy is not worth one more second of your time and energy! Get rid of him, and don't give the jerk another thought!
...............................
A
female
reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
 6 weeks and already things are like this? You are barely out of your honeymoon period and he keeps finishing it with you and pushing his ex's in your face.
If it was me I would walk away from him as this would just show to me what I have to come from being with him and possibly will only get worse.
Good luck :o)
...............................
A
female
reader, camille  +, writes (26 September 2006):
 I'm not trying to trivialise your feelings by saying this, but better to get out now after a short 6 weeks than to prolong this any further. It's not been long and yet "he keeps" finishing with you. Hmmm, even once would be worrying after only 6 weeks. Move on, find someone worth investing any amount of time in, this guy's not worth it.
...............................
A
male
reader, David Lewis +, writes (26 September 2006):
 I know a girl in the very same situation. She loves him although he completely disrespects her and she finds it almost impossible to let him go.
To me, he seems to enjoy having a power hold over you. He will continue to treat you in this way for as long as you allow him to. You really should try to be as strong as you can and tell him to either change completely or get out of your life. It might be the hardest thing you have ever done, but YOU are the only one with the power to change things.
My advice would be to tell him to stay out of your life and let you find somebody who actually deserves to be with you, because this guy definitely doesn't.
It will make you upset, but will ultimately be the thing that makes you happy. Plus standing up to him in this way will make you a stonger, more self believing person.
Best of luck babe, xxx
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2006): That's pretty obvious isn't it? Are you here to fish for some support? [sigh] Of course. 8]
Well, you love a bastard who is inconsiderate of your feelings, who is probably and most likely not in love with you, and is playing stupid games with you. He enjoys seeing you yearn for him by playing those stupid immature games - it gives him power to control and abuse your emotions.
He's not nearly enough to be a man about anything - is this what you want? A premature ejaculation of a male? I suggest you leave this diarrhea of a boy, and seek out someone who can put you on his list of top priorities.
...............................
|
