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writes: Is it considered cheating if my girlfriend is a paying memeber (previously an unpaid member) on Adultfriendfinder.com, and has nude pictures of herself on there for other people to see. She is away at school, and we get to see each other like 1-2 times a month. What happened is I was bored and haven't been on that website since we got together a short while ago, and was actually going to delete my account. I noticed that she had been active as of today 9-25-06, and when I brought it up to her, she got pissed at me for being on that website. Also, on her profile she is listed as single.....However, on her AIM, myspace, facebook, etc, she's listed as in a relationship with me.Is she just doing this to screw around and "talk" to people online or actually trying to meet someone since she's away at school. One of the main things she always tells me is that she never has cheated on anyone and how much she loves me all the time.And when we're together, everything is perfect. So I'm pissed that she would have that on there and also confused as to why, any help is appreciated.
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 However wrong that maybe I think I would have been curious and done the same, I hope for your sake so either doesn't take the bait or tells 'fake you' that she isn't interested, has a boyfriend etc because doing something like this is definantly a way to find out the truth but also may make you find out things you would rather you didn't.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for the help, I'm going to actually see her this Friday, and confront her about it. So we'll see what happens. In the mean time I set up a fake Adult Friend Finder account and sent her an email on it, seeing if she'd take the bait, we'll see what happens.
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 September 2006):
Not only is she advertising for everyone who is potentionally looking for someone that she is single she is also posting nakid pictures of herself for everyone to look at, which really is something only you should be seeing.
She is mad at you for just signing onto the site therefore she sees something wrong in you going onto the website so how is it right for her to not only be on the website regulary but to be single and leaving nakid pictures on it, although this would explain why she wanted your account cancelled so you couldn't see what she was upto.
Hope this helps :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2006): I would not sign up to "adultfriendfinder" to meerly "talk" to people. Your girlfriend is either actively looking for sex or is at least curious to find what guys are sexually attracted to her.
- "And when we're together, everything is perfect"
Please - stop with this wishful thinking. You WISH for things to be perfect, but they are everything but far from it, how can your relationship be OK when she is doing this?
Like Irish said: In a relationship all dating accounts get deactivated. There are NO exceptions to this.
Be careful what choices you make. Especially since you only see each other a couple of times a month. You deserve far better, mate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2006): Dear, your gf is posting nude pictures and advertising herself to the rest of the world. Also, you have found out this AdultFriendFinder profile is active as of very recently. Red flags! Take note and wake up here. I won't state she's cheating because no one knows for sure..but that's a pretty, blatant indicator that she has 'intent' to cheat. Naked pics are a good indicator to the guys out there viewing her profile, that she wants something and it ain't a steak dinner. Usually, when a couple who have online dating profiles, both people show committment by deactivating all dating accounts. So you have to stop and think hard about what her behaviours are saying to you vs what she's actually telling you and take note of the glaring differences. I know you are both in a long distance relationship and that is hard...it takes total committment..to trust each other. Trust is foundational in a relationship and you don't have this. I would be telling her, the profile with the naked pics go..or you go.
Good luck, dear.
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