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writes: well... i'll keep it simple. i have been happily married for 2 years been together 6 know 15. We just had alittle girl about 7 months ago. during my pregnancy i came across something disturbing on my PC...PORN, but not just any PORN...these girls were Young!!!! I mean YOUNG. I confronted him about it he said it was the taboo ness that turned him, but now after he said no more he has done it again.I don't know what to do...is there any one out there who can relate because its killing me inside. I just want to live our lives, we have an awesome reltionship...even the sex is great..after just having a baby. I don't want to leave him.......
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (27 September 2006):
 I say just leave him. He's fantazysing about other women's private part. In my opinion it pretty much says that he's not that into you, that he needs others to make him full and happy, that you're not good enough for him. What does he have to look at other girls naked for?? He has you!!! Someone who doesn't appriciate you enough should be out of your life!!! I know you're probabbly not gonna listen to this since it's so hard for you to leave someone who you've been with for so many years, but this is just my opinion. He shouldn't have gotten away with it the first time. Don't you ever thing he's probabbly thinking about other women when he's with you??? In my opinion he's sick in the head, if you keep him around longer he'll end up harrassing your own daughter.
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 September 2006):
 How young is YOUNG?
There are alot of people out there that find different people sexually attractive and use the internet for that fact as in real life they wouldn't do anything about it or even find the same things a turn on.
You need to talk to him about this and tell him your concerns as this is obviously starting to interfer in your relationship.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2006): First of of all you need to think of your child and if these girls he was watchin are so young that its border line pedofilia then you have to inform the police. Im not saying that any of it would course him to act upon the impulses he has but it can ruin your lives more than you know. My girlfriends father is a convicted pedofil and her life got so bad due to people shouting at her in the streets and beating her up that she tried to kill herself. Thankfully she didnt manage to go through with it but would you really want to risk it all coming out when you child is older and all her friends understand.
However if im wrong and its nothing like pedofilia then ignore that and just tell him you dont want him to watch things like that in your join house because it upsets you. He should understand how you feel and change.
I wish you all the luck possible in the future.
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