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writes: I'm trying to work my way back in with my ex, will it work? Please read my last post first: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-and-want-to-marry-this-woman.htmlWell, as I mentioned, we have been talking a lot lately, mostly me contacting her but her contacting me as well, and have been joking and getting along great. Today (day after her birthday) I asked her if she'd like to hang out later in the week and do something to celebrate her birthday. I kind of hinted at what I wanted to do (take her to a baseball game) and eventuall she figured it out. She said that was WAY WAY WAY Above and Beyond what I had to do (good thing?) and I said that I know I didn't have to but I enjoy going to games her, etc. etc. blah blah.So she said she'd have to check her schedule. She also mentioned that she'd have to see if it was OK with her boyfriend. When she said this I said that that was really lame that she had to ask, but that I understood if she wasn't "allowed" to go with me. I honestly thought that this would make her angry that I said this but it didn't. She said she would find out later and we continued to talk and joke (this is online btw) until I had to go. Any thoughts? I think things are going better than they have been in a while. At this point I'm kind of just waiting for her current relationship to not work out and am trying to kind of work my way back into her life (before I was trying to work my way out, but she wouldn't let me).
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 September 2006):
 If she didn't want to be with her current boyfriend and wanted to be with you then she would be as you are making it quite obvious that this is what you want from her.
You can't wait around forever for someone as this time could be wasted and could break your heart even more.
You need to talk to her and tell her how you are feeling, like I said in your last post telling her won't cause you to lose anything as you seem to have a strong friendship but you could gain from this.
Either way you need to know one way or another because you need to either move on with your life without for or make one with her.
Good luck :o)
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