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writes: I have long had a suspicion that my girlfriend is hiding something from me, cheating maybe or at the very least still talking and seeing her ex boyfriend. I can't help but ask her constantly and I know she won't tell me the that she is. She keeps telling me that I am insecure and that my gut feeling is wrong but I know better than that. I have found text messages on her phone from this guy asking her when they can see eachother, that he misses her etc. on more than one occasion and yet she still plays it off like there is nothing going on there. She has never acted suspicious, comming home late and acting distant towards me but I can't get past the text messages and I definetly can't prove anything. At the same time when I ask her about him and the messages she seems to avoid the questions. If she is right about me being insecure what reason's would I have to feel insecure? Am I over-reacting?
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (27 September 2006):
 Talk to her, tell her how you feel.
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (27 September 2006):
I think you should be worried, because even if she's not interested in the guy, the guy might be. You know how guys usually are, they want to meet up with someone they want to hook up with.
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reader, trainer59 +, writes (27 September 2006):
trainer59 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Toria, I really appreciate your response but I really don't understand while I have these feelings with her, I have never felt this way before. Should I question this? Should I also question my gut feeling? I have tried to talk to her but she seems like she doesn't want to talk about that topic.
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 September 2006):
 When we love someone and don't want to lose them we worry about things like this and when you see something that sparks our suspicions we get insecure.
You only have these text messages to go on which really aren't much as they don't say she has done anything or even met up with him just asking to meet, I would think if she had anything to hide she might not be stupid enough to leave the messages on her phone?
When it comes to it if she is going to cheat she will do so whether you are worrying about it or not, I would talk to her and ask her why he would be texting her and see what she says.
Good luck :o)
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